I nearly turned off the DVD, and I should have.
Initially, I was put off by the bullfighting scenes. This production used real footage. Bullfighting is legal in Spain, and in Madrid it is excluded from a law protecting animals used in film or television. The swords, blood, and distress of the animals are real.
A lot of people found this film to be poetic, lyrical and deeply layered, the kind of film you see once in a lifetime. Frankly, I simply could not connect with it.
*SPOILERS BELOW*
Is having sex with a comatose woman rape? My question is: why is it of cinematic interest?
Benigno, a nurse and voyeur, at first stalks Alicia. In his obsession he visits her Psychiatrist father in a ruse to get into their apartment, steals a personal item from her bedroom, and startles her as she comes out of the shower. Later, an unfortunate accident puts her into a coma. Her father wants the best nurse for her personal care and Benigno is assigned to duty. Though she clearly had no interest in him while healthy and in fact seemed repulsed, he nurses her with tenderness and romantic love. He is more content in his life taking care of her inert body than any other time. If that isn't inane and creepy enough, he consummates his love.
At this point, I got up to check the reviews of this film, hoping for clues that Benigno had some type of honor and was wrongfully accused. The glowing reviews refused to spoil, so I labored on but was disappointed.
Nothing about violating a defenseless woman is "beautiful", "haunting", "unmissable, or "illuminating", no matter how loving the intention. I'm sure the families of such victims, some who end up raising the consequence, would agree with me.
The film does explore the emotional lives of men in a way that American films rarely do and surely has many other good qualities, but, after chaffing my sensibilities with such an atrocious ploy as to try to make love out of rape, I really wished I had just turned it off.
Initially, I was put off by the bullfighting scenes. This production used real footage. Bullfighting is legal in Spain, and in Madrid it is excluded from a law protecting animals used in film or television. The swords, blood, and distress of the animals are real.
A lot of people found this film to be poetic, lyrical and deeply layered, the kind of film you see once in a lifetime. Frankly, I simply could not connect with it.
*SPOILERS BELOW*
Is having sex with a comatose woman rape? My question is: why is it of cinematic interest?
Benigno, a nurse and voyeur, at first stalks Alicia. In his obsession he visits her Psychiatrist father in a ruse to get into their apartment, steals a personal item from her bedroom, and startles her as she comes out of the shower. Later, an unfortunate accident puts her into a coma. Her father wants the best nurse for her personal care and Benigno is assigned to duty. Though she clearly had no interest in him while healthy and in fact seemed repulsed, he nurses her with tenderness and romantic love. He is more content in his life taking care of her inert body than any other time. If that isn't inane and creepy enough, he consummates his love.
At this point, I got up to check the reviews of this film, hoping for clues that Benigno had some type of honor and was wrongfully accused. The glowing reviews refused to spoil, so I labored on but was disappointed.
Nothing about violating a defenseless woman is "beautiful", "haunting", "unmissable, or "illuminating", no matter how loving the intention. I'm sure the families of such victims, some who end up raising the consequence, would agree with me.
The film does explore the emotional lives of men in a way that American films rarely do and surely has many other good qualities, but, after chaffing my sensibilities with such an atrocious ploy as to try to make love out of rape, I really wished I had just turned it off.
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