Glancing at the subject line of this post, many of you are bound to think I'm about to make a sarcastic remark. But no – I will go out on a limb here, and explain why this really is an important film ... and I can almost hear you gritting your teeth in anticipative reaction.
I feel that the majority of voters give it 4/10 mainly because it's not what they were expecting: they expected/wanted to see a romantic comedy that sticks to the tried-and-true formula of good film-making ... yes, I am saying that these days whenever a film doesn't stick to the rules, the masses will gripe about it. You may believe that this is only fair, especially if you're one of those extremely critical types who convince yourselves each time that the best films have the fewest mistakes. It would seem that some of us forget that we're human sometimes and not heartless calculating machines. Are flaws the only yardstick by which a film's worth is measured? It's almost like every time a flaw comes up, the critic in you jolts you out of what would otherwise be a happily immersed state to decry, "look, a fault – that's another point off!" This attitude only distances the viewer from the story. To really appreciate the essence of some films what we need to do is throw the bitter judge's hat away.
Now why am I even bothering to rant on like this? Well, my point is that life itself (which films like this are attempting to emulate) is like that!!! Sometimes, in life we have to put up with annoying people like Jessica-Parker for a full hour and a half. Maybe that's the whole reason why Grant's character broke up with her in the first place! So in my mind, her awfully miscast character (that's my mistaken film-critic devil-on-the- shoulder talking again), actually made the film work all the more!
I applaud the filmmakers for -- unabashedly -- not sticking to the 'what pleases' formula. For the first half hour or so, I noticed many of its flaws too, and then I decided to sit back and ignore them. The pleasing result of this change in attitude was that I became captivated and touched by all of its human elements and believable, real-life characters (mainly the townsfolk from Wyoming) and their laid-back friendliness. The story although slow at times (like life again) flowed pretty well. Its simplicity was a breath of fresh air – unlike the vast majority of other films these days which try (and fail) ever so hard to be the next Best Picture.
Another flaw that worked for me (haha, yes flaws CAN be good!) but only once the film was over was the relationship between Grant's character and the owner of the restaurant. Grant said something like "so I guess we're friends now" at the end, and the guy scowled back at him. As viewers, we didn't really care about their relationship because up until that point we didn't see what had happened between them since they first met, BUT some relationships are like that –- and while most editors would have cut that scene all together, sometimes trivial relationships do make up one's cherished recollections of time out in the country.
Anyway, in a nutshell, I thought it was a very good film, as it wasn't rushed, didn't care about getting everything perfect, and the portrayal of life in Wyoming (whether it's really like that or not) was charming. The film is a window into the world that is Wyoming, and made for a great escape into a life quite unlike my own. At the film's end I actually missed some of its many lovable characters, and learnt a few lessons about what's really important – lead a simple country life, and your city worries will fade away.
I feel that the majority of voters give it 4/10 mainly because it's not what they were expecting: they expected/wanted to see a romantic comedy that sticks to the tried-and-true formula of good film-making ... yes, I am saying that these days whenever a film doesn't stick to the rules, the masses will gripe about it. You may believe that this is only fair, especially if you're one of those extremely critical types who convince yourselves each time that the best films have the fewest mistakes. It would seem that some of us forget that we're human sometimes and not heartless calculating machines. Are flaws the only yardstick by which a film's worth is measured? It's almost like every time a flaw comes up, the critic in you jolts you out of what would otherwise be a happily immersed state to decry, "look, a fault – that's another point off!" This attitude only distances the viewer from the story. To really appreciate the essence of some films what we need to do is throw the bitter judge's hat away.
Now why am I even bothering to rant on like this? Well, my point is that life itself (which films like this are attempting to emulate) is like that!!! Sometimes, in life we have to put up with annoying people like Jessica-Parker for a full hour and a half. Maybe that's the whole reason why Grant's character broke up with her in the first place! So in my mind, her awfully miscast character (that's my mistaken film-critic devil-on-the- shoulder talking again), actually made the film work all the more!
I applaud the filmmakers for -- unabashedly -- not sticking to the 'what pleases' formula. For the first half hour or so, I noticed many of its flaws too, and then I decided to sit back and ignore them. The pleasing result of this change in attitude was that I became captivated and touched by all of its human elements and believable, real-life characters (mainly the townsfolk from Wyoming) and their laid-back friendliness. The story although slow at times (like life again) flowed pretty well. Its simplicity was a breath of fresh air – unlike the vast majority of other films these days which try (and fail) ever so hard to be the next Best Picture.
Another flaw that worked for me (haha, yes flaws CAN be good!) but only once the film was over was the relationship between Grant's character and the owner of the restaurant. Grant said something like "so I guess we're friends now" at the end, and the guy scowled back at him. As viewers, we didn't really care about their relationship because up until that point we didn't see what had happened between them since they first met, BUT some relationships are like that –- and while most editors would have cut that scene all together, sometimes trivial relationships do make up one's cherished recollections of time out in the country.
Anyway, in a nutshell, I thought it was a very good film, as it wasn't rushed, didn't care about getting everything perfect, and the portrayal of life in Wyoming (whether it's really like that or not) was charming. The film is a window into the world that is Wyoming, and made for a great escape into a life quite unlike my own. At the film's end I actually missed some of its many lovable characters, and learnt a few lessons about what's really important – lead a simple country life, and your city worries will fade away.
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