I watched this movie with my youngest daughter. She is adultish (18, turning 19 and going on 45). We watched it, sitting closely together at the kitchen island table, where most of our little family's decisions and memories are made. My daughter doesn't care for sitting down and watching tv, let alone a full length feature film. But, I caught her on a rare "I'm bored" mood. I am really glad I did. Little did I know that this movie would hit hard.
Thirteen year old, Meilin is a dynamo. Feeling herself from the opening scenes right up until the closing credits. This is a lot. No, like A LOT. I was afraid that this would be reinforcing Asian stereotypes...the diligent daughter, respectful, responsible, a good student, over achieving with her pack of friends adding spice to her regimented and woefully über scheduled life. Her mother, Ming Lee (played by Sandra Oh) being the over protective, helicopter/tiger mom hybrid, forcing her wishes upon her daughter. And, there was a lot of that thematic stereotyping...over the top antics by mom that were actually funny to this almost fifty year old mom of two insanely beautiful, brilliant, and kind daughters. Funny enough that my youngest snorted and giggled, hitting the back screen arrow to view the funny again. I settled in for a good time, hoping we would last the whole feature through. We did.
Meilin is a typical tween to newly minted teen. The braces (that somehow disappeared in the movie without mention), the obligatory flute, the devotion to 4-Town ( the boy band taking Toronto by storm), and her solid friend circle. I love the carefully developed characters that are Meilin's friends...Priya is a stoic Indian Canadian girl who is chill and offers one liners that are cool and supportive of her friend. She is not the leader of this friend group, she is the ultimate booster and lifts her friend's spirits often. Miriam, quite easily tied for leader of the friend pack, is a tomboyish, boy crazy girl who loves Mei Mei even after the turn. Ming is not fond of Miriam and sees her as a bad influence to Mei. And, finally we have the hilarious Abby. She's chaotic, funny, quite possibly the most confident of the group. She simply doesn't care what anyone says, choosing to follow her own, often aggressive statements. She loves the plushy that Mei Mei becomes and encourages her to turn panda just so she can "get a hit".
Waking up one morning to find that she has turned into a giant red panda, Meilin freaks out, causing her mother, Ming to think that Mei has started her monthly cycle. Lines of communication get crossed and Ming supplies a mortified Mei, countless boxes of pads and other period related items. Mei flees her home, tries to go to school, where her mother tries, once again to help her daughter by mortifying her with more pads. Mei escapes the school, destroying the town along the way. She returns home where her parents try to explain that this is their family's "inconvenience"...aka....curse. There's a ritual that can "cure" Mei and it can only be performed on the exact same day that Meilin's beloved 4-Town will be in concert. The friends decide they must go, even after each has been told no by their parents. The friends try to think of options to find a way to attend, the tickets are $200each...they decide to capitalize on Meilin's malady.
I found the plot to be ok, as a parent of adult daughters. However, I can see a lot of young girls trying to emulate these behaviors, not turning into giant red pandas, but the lying, scheming, and deceitful behaviors that the friends seem to have no issue with, at all. There isn't the one character that tries to be the voice of reason, like the " hey guys, I don't think we should do this..." friend. All four begin collecting money, creating Merch,and lying left and right to their moms. We don't get to see any fallout from the other parents, but we sure do get to witness what happens when Ming finds out what Meilin has been doing.
At the end of the movie, both my daughter and I kinda talked it out. The movie was really good at presenting alternative life choices. There was a healthy dose of body image disparity and how she overcame it. That, we both agreed, was the best part of the entire film. It sounds cheesy to say that the power of friendship was strongly at work. But, I do feel like Disney missed a huge opportunity to have Ming step into her daughter's shoes. To try to see things the way her daughter did. There was a very brief part where there was maternal approval, but honestly...way too little, way too late. Same can be said for the father, Jin. He spends the entire movie being shushed by his wife. Until he finds the camcorder and has a brief chat, before the blood moon, telling Meilin that he loved seeing that side of her. Like, dude, where the heck have you been? Your kid is a giant red panda and you are just now telling her that you loved her, any side at all? It felt like an afterthought. But, hang out through the credits for a little surprise featuring Jin.
All in all, this was a lighthearted film that tried to tackle a lot of issues. My body, my choice turned into, My Panda, My Choice...things like that. The characters were mostly female and that was nice. Contemporary characters, set in today's times. I did enjoy the film, as did my daughter. I recommend this film to slightly older teens...maybe a mature 13, but more likely a 14/15 year old that can grasp the underlying message. I also recommend this film to any parents trying to come to terms with who their teenager is becoming. This film offers insight for both sides with the typical Disney spin.
Thirteen year old, Meilin is a dynamo. Feeling herself from the opening scenes right up until the closing credits. This is a lot. No, like A LOT. I was afraid that this would be reinforcing Asian stereotypes...the diligent daughter, respectful, responsible, a good student, over achieving with her pack of friends adding spice to her regimented and woefully über scheduled life. Her mother, Ming Lee (played by Sandra Oh) being the over protective, helicopter/tiger mom hybrid, forcing her wishes upon her daughter. And, there was a lot of that thematic stereotyping...over the top antics by mom that were actually funny to this almost fifty year old mom of two insanely beautiful, brilliant, and kind daughters. Funny enough that my youngest snorted and giggled, hitting the back screen arrow to view the funny again. I settled in for a good time, hoping we would last the whole feature through. We did.
Meilin is a typical tween to newly minted teen. The braces (that somehow disappeared in the movie without mention), the obligatory flute, the devotion to 4-Town ( the boy band taking Toronto by storm), and her solid friend circle. I love the carefully developed characters that are Meilin's friends...Priya is a stoic Indian Canadian girl who is chill and offers one liners that are cool and supportive of her friend. She is not the leader of this friend group, she is the ultimate booster and lifts her friend's spirits often. Miriam, quite easily tied for leader of the friend pack, is a tomboyish, boy crazy girl who loves Mei Mei even after the turn. Ming is not fond of Miriam and sees her as a bad influence to Mei. And, finally we have the hilarious Abby. She's chaotic, funny, quite possibly the most confident of the group. She simply doesn't care what anyone says, choosing to follow her own, often aggressive statements. She loves the plushy that Mei Mei becomes and encourages her to turn panda just so she can "get a hit".
Waking up one morning to find that she has turned into a giant red panda, Meilin freaks out, causing her mother, Ming to think that Mei has started her monthly cycle. Lines of communication get crossed and Ming supplies a mortified Mei, countless boxes of pads and other period related items. Mei flees her home, tries to go to school, where her mother tries, once again to help her daughter by mortifying her with more pads. Mei escapes the school, destroying the town along the way. She returns home where her parents try to explain that this is their family's "inconvenience"...aka....curse. There's a ritual that can "cure" Mei and it can only be performed on the exact same day that Meilin's beloved 4-Town will be in concert. The friends decide they must go, even after each has been told no by their parents. The friends try to think of options to find a way to attend, the tickets are $200each...they decide to capitalize on Meilin's malady.
I found the plot to be ok, as a parent of adult daughters. However, I can see a lot of young girls trying to emulate these behaviors, not turning into giant red pandas, but the lying, scheming, and deceitful behaviors that the friends seem to have no issue with, at all. There isn't the one character that tries to be the voice of reason, like the " hey guys, I don't think we should do this..." friend. All four begin collecting money, creating Merch,and lying left and right to their moms. We don't get to see any fallout from the other parents, but we sure do get to witness what happens when Ming finds out what Meilin has been doing.
At the end of the movie, both my daughter and I kinda talked it out. The movie was really good at presenting alternative life choices. There was a healthy dose of body image disparity and how she overcame it. That, we both agreed, was the best part of the entire film. It sounds cheesy to say that the power of friendship was strongly at work. But, I do feel like Disney missed a huge opportunity to have Ming step into her daughter's shoes. To try to see things the way her daughter did. There was a very brief part where there was maternal approval, but honestly...way too little, way too late. Same can be said for the father, Jin. He spends the entire movie being shushed by his wife. Until he finds the camcorder and has a brief chat, before the blood moon, telling Meilin that he loved seeing that side of her. Like, dude, where the heck have you been? Your kid is a giant red panda and you are just now telling her that you loved her, any side at all? It felt like an afterthought. But, hang out through the credits for a little surprise featuring Jin.
All in all, this was a lighthearted film that tried to tackle a lot of issues. My body, my choice turned into, My Panda, My Choice...things like that. The characters were mostly female and that was nice. Contemporary characters, set in today's times. I did enjoy the film, as did my daughter. I recommend this film to slightly older teens...maybe a mature 13, but more likely a 14/15 year old that can grasp the underlying message. I also recommend this film to any parents trying to come to terms with who their teenager is becoming. This film offers insight for both sides with the typical Disney spin.
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