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7/10
On Religion
mitchrmp12 October 2013
The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked, and this episode gives a good point to the reasoning behind this. Perhaps a couple can adjust. For instance, Percival has adjusted by attending Sunday church with Nellie. However, when grandchildren are involved, that could be the true test.

Though this episode showed the parents as indifferent to the religion this child chooses, most parents...at least I know I would...would insist the child be raised in their own faith. Being Christian, I would naturally wanted my child to be Christian. In this episode, though, it's the grandparents (Nellie's mother and Percival's father) who make all the fuss.

this was a really good Nellie story. I really like Nellie married. She's so much nicer and actually sweet. I'm sure it's a lot closer to her real personality then the other! Percival made a very good point near the end of this episode after the last big blowout: "Is this what religion is all about? Anger? Fighting? Hatred? Well if it is, Nellie and I don't want any part of it." This is so profound. Sometimes we wonder why more people aren't into faith. Could this be the reason?
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7/10
Losing My Religion...
ExplorerDS678919 July 2011
Warning: Spoilers
Could life be any sweeter for Percival and Nellie? Their restaurant is flourishing and she is very much with child, so I'd say things were as good for them as they could get. Unfortunately this is a parade that is about to get rained on, for one fateful day Percival received a letter from his parents in New York who plan to come out for a visit. He and Nellie may have been excited, but not so much Harriet. Being the horrific bigot she is, the Oleson matriarch had never really met a Jewish person before and wondered how different they looked. Well, a few days later, Benjamin and Edna Cohen stepped off that stage and were happily reunited with their son. They were very friendly to Harriet, who was relieved to find out they don't bite. They adored Nellie and thought her to be an angel...good thing they didn't meet her seven seasons ago. Their first supper was not what you would call peaceful. Benjamin and Harriet has disagreements on drinking milk with meat, and Benjamin went so far as to decline a serving of roast, as it was not kosher. It's all tradition, which the old man hopes Percival will pass down to his son. Benjamin also gave Percival a hard time for changing his name to Dalton and moving out of the city. He did it because the employers there were nasty bigots who wouldn't hire a Jewish man. Career before family.

It looks as though Benjamin and Edna have laid down the rules on how they want their grandchild raised and don't give a hoot what Percival and Nellie or Harriet and Nels want for it. A christening was out of the question, that baby would be Jewish whether he/she liked it or not. I guess nobody bothered to inform these two that a child's religion is taken after the mother's side, and Nellie is Christian, so I guess that would settle it. Regardless, Benjamin carried on and on about wanting the Olesons to except the Jewish way of life and wouldn't hear any arguments. I'm starting to get the impression that Percival's father is kind of a jerk. On Saturday evening, the Cohens and Olesons sat down for a Sabbath supper. It had everything: candlelight, bickering, screaming, crying. This was all a sure sign of things to come. Percival decided to plead with his old man to try and be nicer to Harriet, for Nellie's sake. Benjamin tried, oh Lord, did he try, but Harriet had to be a persnickety carper who lambasted Benjamin for trying to make a few suggestions by way of pushing merchandise. He exploded and left the store. He and Harriet had a screaming match all the way to the restaurant, where Nellie broke into tears and Percival FINALLY put his foot down. Stunned and forlorn, Benjamin and Harriet finally found a way to come and reason together. Nels thought of a compromise: if Nellie had a boy, it would be raised in the Jewish tradition, carrying on the Cohen name. But if she had a girl, it would be raised Christian. They all agreed, although I think they should consult the folks who are actually having the baby first. They agreed too, thinking it was funny as hell. Good, now everybody's happy again. I feel sorry for that baby already, having grandparents like these. Well, it wasn't long before the blessed event finally arrived. Nellie gave birth to a healthy baby girl...and a boy! Both families rejoiced in celebration and finally managed to get along. The babies were named Jenny and Benny...excuse me, BENJAMIN!!

Personally, if I were in Percival and Nellie's situation, I'd want to move as far away from those loud, doddering, brooding, over-protective parents as possible. Sad as it sounds, this is a tale as old as time. People from opposite ends of the spectrum meet up when their kids get married and welcome a child, instantly jumping in and trying to tell them how to raise it. Because it's their child who's having a baby, they feel it's their right to tell them how it should be brought up. There is a solution, however: when they ramble on with all that nonsense, just listen, let them say their piece, and then do whatever you want. Let them blow off hot air and allow it to pass right over your head. If they become aggressive, like Benjamin, then move away from them because if you let them, they will dominate your life. But anyway, this episode was pretty good. Alison Arngrim and Steve Tracy were very good as Nellie and Percival. They made such a good couple and it's only too bad we didn't see them together more often. Katherine MacGregor and E.M. Margolese were very good too as Harriet and Benjamin, two parents most of us have and kind of wish we didn't. So if you like Percival and Nellie, you wonder what Percival's parents are like and see how he still managed to grow up normal, then I recommend Come Let Us Reason Together. It isn't fantastic or does it stand out very much, but it's enjoyable and I think many, many people can relate to this story.
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8/10
GREAT EPISODE, CONTINUITY ISSUE
derridonn-7855910 March 2022
Couldn't help but notice at one point when Harriet was venting to Nels that, "You go your whole life without meeting one (a Jew) and all of a sudden one shows up right on your doorstep". However, in Season 5, episode 15 "The Craftsman", the main character, Isaac Singerman, was a Jewish craftsman who was the target of prejudice, especially from Harriet and Mr. Larrabee. She most definitely met a Jew in Walnut Grove long before the Cohens.
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8/10
Little House in Bunker territory
gregorycanfield31 January 2022
Not surprisingly, almost all the other reviews here paint Mrs Oleson as the sole bigot. Not so. Mrs Oleson and Percival's father have something in common. They're both bigoted. They are each determined to have their grandchild brought up in their own religion. Neither is willing to see the other's viewpoint. The Benjamin character is presented as though you were supposed to find him amusing. He wasn't amusing, and he wasn't right either. Percival gave a needed "voice of reason" to the episode, when he questioned all the arguing over religion. Percival's parents came across as stereotypes. That didn't work to the story's advantage. The unfunny attempts at humor seemed more like something directed by Mel Brooks instead of Michael Landon. Interesting, also, that Landon directed but didn't appear in the episode.
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6/10
Why Don't Nellie and Percival Raise the Baby as Unitarian?
dhainline116 March 2017
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I thought this episode of "Little House" was rather silly! Nellie is pregnant by husband Percival aka Isaac Cohen and her 2 annoying in-laws come over for a visit. I could handle Percival's mother because she seemed like a very nice lady. His father, Benjamin, wow! What a loud-mouth who bullied Nellie and Percival into raising their unborn child as Jewish which is Percival's religion. Nellie is Christian and in a rather delicate state. The arguing between Nellie's mother Harriet and Benjamin really got on the nerves of this young married couple! I think the child should be exposed to both Jewish and Christian traditions and decide which one her or she likes the best. Nells who is Nellie's father suggests if the baby is a boy to raise him as Jewish while a girl will be Christian. Nellie ends up having twins named Benjamin and Jennifer. Benjamin will be Jewish while his twin sister is Christian. I don't think the adults thought this situation through! Jennifer will have Christmas and Easter to celebrate while her brother won't be able to join in the celebrations! He might grow to resent her! He will also be the favorite of grandfather Benjamin. They all had to remind the older Benjamin he had a granddaughter as well! I think another solution would be to raise the child in the Unitarian faith or have the child decide what they want to believe and how they want to or don't want to worship God.
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7/10
Semi-autobiographical?
petessheep-22-51983929 January 2021
Every time I watch this episode I wonder if this is not Michael Landon tipping his hat to how his life turned out as well. He went from having a very Jewish sounding name and living as a Jewish person to abandoning his name and adopting a gentile one. I'm guessing is because he thought that he would get more work if background was not widely known. Some of the dialogue between Percival and Benjamin I can imagine was possibly Landon's own conversations with himself in his mind or maybe what he thought his father would say. Hmmm.
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3/10
Benjamin Cohen's religious fanaticism is intolerable.
drfernandogil3 May 2024
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This is a crazy episode.

Benjamin Cohen's religious fanaticism is intolerable. He tries to impose his religion on everyone, and instead of making his misplacement noted, he is presented as "a proud man."

Of course, everything is different when it comes to Harriet, who is unceremoniously dropped on her.

It bothers me a lot that Nels never pays attention to his wife's position and always appears to disapprove, even when reason supports him.

The solution is tragicomic that if the child is a boy he is Jewish and if it is a girl he is Christian, and even more clownish is that, having born mixed twins, the Jewish family only celebrates the arrival of the boy child and the Christian family that of the girl, woman, and the other grandson is ignored, as if he were from another family!

The children's parents, Nellie and Percival/Isaac, provide the small amount of sanity in the subject, they do not seem too moved by this topic. And the most sensible words are those of Percival: "Is this religion? Fights, arguments, hatred? In that case, we will not take part." The only sensible thing about the chapter.

Without a doubt, starting with season 7, the episodes have been getting worse and worse.
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